A HAPPY ACCIDENT IN THE KITCHEN

​Last night, I thought I had dinner all figured out. I would simply open a can of whole-kernel corn, slice some potatoes for French fries, and serve them with thinly sliced pork barbecue, pounded tender with my meat tenderizer hammer. I thought they would make a simple, satisfying dinner.

But there was a hitch. Sadly, I had picked up the wrong can at the grocery store and didn’t realize it until I opened it. Instead of whole-kernel corn, I found myself staring at a can of creamed corn!

Fortunately, I still had some fried rice left over from the other night, so dinner was saved and turned out just fine.

But then came the question: What was I going to do with the opened can of creamed corn?

My helper suggested eating it as it was, or adding milk and crushed ice, the way it is sometimes enjoyed in halo-halo. Instead, I decided to turn it into corn cream soup.

After searching for the right recipe, I was torn between making a simple vegetable corn soup or one enriched with cream. The un-creamed version won—Jim prefers his soup without cream.

 

Here’s what went to my little kitchen experiment:

• Sauté minced garlic, grated ginger, and chopped onions.
• Add grated carrots, thinly sliced beans, chopped celery, chopped red bell pepper, and two thinly sliced shiitake mushrooms.
• Put in 1 tsp salt, 1 tsp garlic powder, 1 tsp ground black pepper
• Cook the vegetables until thoroughly tender.
• Stir in one can of creamed corn.
• Add ½ teaspoon each of sugar and balsamic vinegar. Regular vinegar works, too.
• Add 3/4 cup water or 2 cups if you want more soup, just thicken with a tablespoon of cirm starch. 
• Sprinkle with thinly sliced spring onions and celery. 

And there it was—a delicious bowl of homemade corn soup, born from a simple grocery-store mistake!

It turned out to be the perfect comfort food for a cool, rainy day. Warm, nourishing, and soothing, it was more than just soup. It was comfort in a bowl—something that warmed both the body and the soul.

Sometimes, the best things in the kitchen happen when things don’t go quite as planned.

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THE JOY OF WALKING ALONE

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I enjoy walking alone as much as I enjoy walking with friends.

I must admit, though, that walking with a buddy is so much more fun. There is always something to talk about, and in every conversation, I seem to learn something new. There is always something to laugh about that makes the morning even more enjoyable.

But when no one is around, I don’t fret. It’s not as if the whole world has failed to show up! I certainly won’t ask, “Where have all the flowers gone?” Instead, I take it as an opportunity to turn my attention to Nature’s beauty.

I turn on Spotify, put on my favorite playlist, and enjoy the music as I walk.

Then I begin to notice the world around me. And sure enough, I often discover something interesting to write about. I admire the leaves of the plants, still glistening after the rain. I breathe in the fresh scent of the grass, stop to admire the blooming flowers, listen to the sounds of the morning, and greet the people I meet along the way.

There is so much to see and appreciate when I take the time to look.

I know many people feel lonely or bored when they are alone—not only while walking, but in everyday life. My cardiologist once told us that many of her patients, mostly seniors, say that boredom is one of their foremost concerns.

Recently, I read that perhaps the true measure of a person’s happiness is how content they are when they are alone—not when surrounded by family, bonding with friends, or enjoying a party. I have observed this in myself, and I totally agree.

Of course, the saying “No man is an island” has its truth. We need people. We need family, friends, laughter, and companionship. But I have also learned that being alone does not have to mean being lonely.

For me, solitude is simply another way of enjoying life.

Sometimes, it is good to walk alone, listen to your own thoughts, notice the beauty around you—and most of all, love your own company.

A LITTLE BLESSING, A LOT OF HOPE

​I was happy to see that, despite the two weeks of almost nonstop rain, Jim’s little bell peppers managed to ripen. The rain had been so relentless that he finally had no choice but to harvest them.

Sadly, this is all that remains of the plant. Even the seedlings my brother gave us did not survive the wet weather.

But there is still a little reason to be hopeful. Our helper thoughtfully saved some of the seeds and dried them, ready to be planted again.

So, while this little pepper plant may be at the end of its life, its seeds carry the promise of a new beginning.

And that, I suppose, is one of nature’s quiet lessons: sometimes, even after something is lost, there is still hope for it to grow again.

MY PAPA’S SOURSOP TREE

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Every time I see a soursop, locally known in the Philippines as guyabano, I remember my Papa.

He had such a green thumb. 

Gardening was his passion. Our front lawn was filled with ornamental plants, while the backyard was planted with fruit trees. 

Among all the trees he grew, the soursop was my favorite.

I was told that he had wanted to study agricultural engineering in college, a career that was not considered prestigious in his time. Orphaned at a young age and lovingly raised by his grandmother, he was encouraged to follow in the footsteps of his cousins and become a lawyer or a doctor, because those were the professions most admired by society then. To please his grandmother, he eventually enrolled in law at the reputable Ateneo de Manila University.

After World War II, he brought his wife and two children to his mother’s hometown, where their clan was well established. A generous piece of prime property in the best part of town was set aside for him. There, he bought a tractor and managed the vast rice lands he had inherited from his grandmother.

The soursop tree stood in our backyard, the only one among many chico trees. From the kitchen window, it was impossible to miss. 

Beneath it, Papa built a chicken coop.

After school, when I wanted a snack before dinner, I would climb the tree and eat the ripe fruit right there among the branches. 

Then I would hear the seeds dropping onto the iron roof of the coop below. That sound has stayed with me through the years, as clear and real as it was then.

It is one of the sweetest memories of my childhood—as sweet as the soursop I used to eat from my Papa’s tree.

BLUEBERRY PANCAKES AND BACON

I decided to have Pancakes and Bacon again for breakfast. Another cloudy and rainy day seemed to call for comfort food. This time, I made Blueberry Pancakes!

I’m posting this because I lost the photos from my last pancake post. So here they are! Notice that the blueberries were chopped, unlike the traditional way of adding whole blueberries to the batter. Take a look at the photo showing the inside—you can see the little pieces of blueberry throughout the pancake.

Today I couldn’t help taking a photo of the Bacon while they were cooking. I love to watch them curl as they turn crispy. 

Now, following my last post, you may be wondering: Did Jim go out driving around or walking?

Yes! He went out for a walk but was caught in the rain after only 1,500 steps. He couldn’t help himself, even though Celine and I had decided otherwise. 😂

They say the weather is fickle, like women. But Celine and I were decisive! We knew that drizzle could turn into big drops without warning.

Back to the pancakes—oh yes, here’s also a photo of the Manuka honey from Cheska, a pasalubong from her trip Down Under. 

Another indulgent breakfast! I’ll make it up for lunch and dinner today.

DRIED DILIS FOR BREAKFAST—A HUMBLE FOOD, ELEVATED

Dried baby anchovies, locally known as dilis, are on Jim’s breakfast plate today, together with dried hasahasa and plain scrambled eggs.

Cooking dilis to perfection is something I would never delegate to my maid. Timing and focus are crucial. Cook them a minute too long and they become bitter; take them out of the skillet too early and they won’t be crispy enough.

These dilis came from Tess, one of the tasty fares from her hometown in Samar. Once, I turned them into an appetizer, inspired by what the Thais do in Bangkok—cooked until crispy, then made into a sweet, salty, and spicy snack. Many of our friends bring them home as pasalubong for family and friends.

When I was young, dilis was considered a poor man’s meal. Today, with creative chefs everywhere, this humble little fish has been elevated into something extraordinary. You can even find it served as part of the appetizer offerings in Japanese restaurants.

Btw, I am staying faithful to my regular breakfast today: oatmeal and scrambled eggs with tomatoes, onions, and malunggay leaves. No indulgence today—my health comes first. 

Our fruits remain the same: papaya and a few blueberries.

Sometimes, it’s amazing how a humble food from our childhood can find its way onto a much more sophisticated table—and still taste just as good. 

ARYA’S COLLEGE GRADUATION

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Today, my heart is overflowing with pride as my granddaughter, Arya, graduated from college with honors. To celebrate this wonderful milestone, her parents hosted a family dinner at Brasserie on 3, Conrad Manila. 

Milestones like this have a way of opening the treasure chest of memories. It seems only yesterday that Arya was born, just as I had turned sixty and retired. The timing was perfect, allowing me to devote precious hours to her during her earliest years.

Three times a week, she spent entire days with us until she started school. By then, we had formed a bond that no one can ever take away. Those first three years may now be just a blur to her, but they remain vivid in my heart—days filled with little adventures, laughter, and love. As she grew older, I would share stories from those days, and she would smile with such delight, listening to memories we both would cherish forever.

And now, here she is—a mature young woman, ready to spread her wings and face the world. I know I cannot shield her from life’s challenges, but I pray that she will always be happy, safe, and guided toward the path meant for her. May she never forget that she is deeply loved, valuable, and wonderfully special.

Dear Arya, may your dreams take you to beautiful places, may your talents open doors of opportunity, and may kindness and faith always light your way. Believe in yourself, for we certainly believe in you. Wherever life leads, know that you will always have a family: your Dad and Mom, Papa and Nana who love you and will be cheering you on every step of the way.

Congratulations, Arya! We are so proud of you. May this be only the beginning of a life filled with purpose, joy, and countless blessings.

MY LITTLE BELL PEPPER HARVEST

I decided to pick them before they dropped on their own. They may not have grown as large as the mother fruit from which their seeds came, but bell peppers they are just the same!

Their size may be modest, but they bring me outsized joy. There is something deeply satisfying about planting a seed, tending it with care, and being rewarded with a harvest—even one that fits in the palm of your hand. These tiny peppers are proof that in the garden, as in life, good things do not always come in big packages.

I’m quite proud of these little fellows, and to me, they are perfect.

SAMPAGUITA, SUNSHINE and SUMMER

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Sampaguita, sunshine, and summer—together they make up one of my most treasured childhood memories.

The sun was already high at barely six in the morning, lighting my path and wrapping me in the warmth of a summer day. 

Along the way, I spotted sampaguita bushes laden with sweet-smelling blossoms. Their fragrance instantly carried me back to my childhood.

I paused to take a photo, plucked a tiny flower, and breathed in its familiar scent. In that powerful moment, beautiful memories came rushing back so vividly that I was completely lost in them, forgetting for a while where I was.

Then I heard my Spotify playlist softly playing in the background, and little by little I returned to the present.

What a joyful gift that moment was—a reminder of how a simple flower can open the door to a lifetime of cherished memories.

A MANGO SEASON FAREWELL

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This may be the last harvest from my mango tree this season, and I suddenly realized I hadn’t even taken a photo with it! So today, with a grateful heart, I decided to pose beside my generous mango tree—the true star of the picture.

What a season it has been! The tree produced more mangoes than I could possibly enjoy on my own, so the harvest happily found its way to many hands. Mangoes were shared with friends, immediate neighbors, my sister and her visiting friend, bank employees, the ever-accommodating staff at Mercury, the cheerful gang at my favorite beauty salon, my seamstress and her coworkers, and my trusted meat and vegetable vendors.

Carrying heavy bags of mangoes here, there, and everywhere felt less like work and more like spreading little bundles of sunshine. Each bag delivered came with smiles, conversations, and the simple joy of sharing nature’s abundance.

As I bid farewell to this mango season, my heart is full of gratitude—for the harvest, for the people who received it, and for the happiness that comes from giving. Here’s hoping my faithful mango tree and I can do it all over again next season! 

My Older Daughter’s Golden Milestone Birthday

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Last night was truly special.

I had been looking forward to it for weeks. I even bought a new dress for my older daughter’s 50th birthday dinner celebration at LUSOO by Margarita Forés in Greenbelt.

My younger daughter flew in with her husband just for the occasion. Their birthdays are only a week apart, and when they were children, they always celebrated together. 

Now that they live oceans apart, they still try to keep that tradition alive whenever circumstances allow. But for this golden milestone, she simply could not miss celebrating with her sister.

The evening stirred two powerful emotions in me: nostalgia and pride.

As I watched my daughters together, I found myself revisiting precious memories of their childhood. It seems only yesterday that I was caring for them, guiding them, and watching them take their first steps through life. 

Those years passed far too quickly.

Yet alongside the nostalgia was an overwhelming sense of pride.

With immeasurable gratitude, I see how my older daughter has grown into a woman of grace, intelligence, strength, and compassion. The positive impact she has on her family, friends, and community reflects the values she carries so naturally.

Last night, my heart was full. I felt thankful not only for the joy she has brought me as a daughter, but also for the privilege of watching her become the remarkable woman she is today—loving, caring, affectionate, and always ready to lend a helping hand.

Happy 50th birthday, my dear daughter. Thank you for the gift of being your mother and for making that journey one of the greatest blessings of my life. 

57th ANNIVERSARY LUNCH

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I believe in perfect timing—always in God’s time!

Just yesterday, I was wondering, “When was the last time Jim and I actually went out—just the two of us?” I couldn’t remember! And then today, out of the blue, he says, “Let’s have lunch out.” Well… isn’t that perfect timing? 

Off we went to The Olive Tree, the very same place where we had that farewell lunch for my sister-in-law.  Clearly, something stuck—those delicious Mediterranean dishes. 

I recall there’s that unforgettable beef taco basket—huge, indulgent, and gloriously dripping with cheese all over the board. I’ve always loved cheese, give me cheese and crackers—or better yet, sourdough—and I’m already a happy girl. Add good company, and it becomes a feast.

So today felt like a little wink from above… a simple lunch, a sweet surprise, and a reminder that sometimes, the best moments arrive right on cue—with a side of cheese.