Saturday 7 May 2022

A CALM DAY FOR THE KAKAMPINKS


I couldn’t let this Kakampink Crusade pass by without putting in a few words to my blog.  This is such a huge undertaking that never happened in our country’s history.  Unprecedented, they all say. 

Though thousands of writers, bloggers, reporters and newspapers tried to document these happenings;  it has become an enormous one that it is quite impossible to pick up  all stories told about our experiences and what has transpired in total. 

After all what’s been said and done, our friends, the  kakampinks; old and new, personal or virtual,  have done an overwhelming job to spread the word, to promote and support our ideal future president.  

Today as we wait for tomorrow’s election results, we can’t help but entertain a bit of anxiety.  But we must realize that we have said what’s needed to be said; done what’s  needed to be done.  Thousands have been very generous of their resources, their time, their services, their food and drinks.  

Many have gone out of their way to set up rally venues,  composed a song, choreographed a dance, did house to house campaign, performed flash mobs in busy streets, painted a mural or a placard to express their support to Leni as well as their own personal battle cry.   All these, we never expected, yet it grew into a fun movement for a relevant cause. 

From the very start of the campaign, we were advised to stay calm, do not argue, do not engage in unpleasant exchange of words; just think positive, post on line only true and positive ideas and do not react on fake news; since there are more important things to do; primarily to explain the right message to those who are still in the dark or to the undecided. 

So today, let’s give ourselves a break; know that we didn’t leave any stone unturned.  Let us stay calm, pray for divine guidance and intervention so that the good will prevail. 

It was such a great opportunity to relate to all of you kakampinks; even though to most was only virtual.  I enjoyed the ride and I’ll surely miss it. 


Thursday 5 May 2022

GRATEFUL TO CELEBRATE OUR 53RD WEDDING ANNIVERSARY





They all say that to celebrate a golden wedding anniversary is a privilege not given to many.  Jim and I may not always be in the pink of condition but we cope with the aches and pains of old age.   We enjoy the days that we feel really well; and so today I’m so humbled and grateful to celebrate our 53rd. 

Marriage can be absolute bliss or a devastating disappointment.  It depends on our choice of a partner.  Jim and I are just so blessed to have found each other.  

Real life challenge real love.  There are trying times when we need to hone every cunning nerve in our bodies so we don’t try to pull our hair out.  See, it could be that bad. 

People grow and change over the years; oftentimes we are reluctant to embrace or we just can’t to accept the change in our partner.  But within those 53 years, we have proven that we can beat the challenges. 

I believe in true love, I believe in finding “the one”; I believe in soft spoken vows.  Someone wrote that :
“a ring is just a ring until a person attaches a promise to it; a song is just a song unless  someone shares a moment of bliss with a partner.  But if we believe that this could be the start of our happily ever after; our once in a lifetime dream come true; then it is magic!”  

But magic is not enough.  The key is compromise;  an equal give and take.  We  endured because we found a rhythm to relate with each other with love and respect.  

When one is agitated and angry the other quietly disappears; when one is wrong or errs and apologizes, the other forgives; when one is sick, the other nutures; when one is worried, the other assures; when one is tired, the other comforts; when one is in pain, the other soothes. 


They say that true love is for the brave, not for the lucky.  You have to trust love; you have to fight for that love; you have to hold on tightly to that love because there is nothing more precious in life than love. 

Every love story is great and wonderful but ours is my favorite.  Love is a beautiful thing that should be celebrated.