HAPPY BIRTHDAY CELINE!

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What a wonderful birthday celebration!

Today we celebrated Celine’s birthday; her “love” Ruben treated us to lunch at Vikings, it being still the best buffet in BF. 

The Sweet Magnolias, miss you, TESS. 

The great partners. 

We were whisked in immediately upon arrival, we just had time for a photo or two with the early birds. 

Whether one is sweet 16 or in the fabulous golden 50’s, these birthdays are worth celebrating. Today, we captured the essence of Celine’s birthday in our photos, laughter, fun and glorious food! 

Blowing candles on the cake is traditional. Did you notice that the candles increase every year until you can’t put out all of them in one blow?  For sure children love the added candles; but do we like more candles in our advanced age?  

And then the wish!  As a young child we wish for toys or gadgets; but as we age our wishes graduate to non-material things like good health, success in chosen career, peace and harmony in and outside the home, freedom, security and safety, equal treatment, respect and others not related to money. 

Except for good health, I wonder what else would Celine wish for; material things are within her grasp. She is happy everyday, so I guess we will never know. Birthday wishes are secret after all, never to be divulged lest they won’t come true. 

I’ve known Celine earlier on; but in the few weeks that I walked with her everyday, I found her very pleasant to be with. She’s funny, has a great sense of humor; she even dramatizes with humor things that we talk about that we couldn’t stop laughing. She’s so “kalog”. 

On the serious side, she is even tempered, very religious and God fearing. She is active in church activities and leads the choir; her voice is sweet, smooth and musical, so pleasing. 

This is her”love” whom she often salutes and says: “yes sir “. 

Notice the junior Magnolia. “Are you tita Tess”, she asked me.  I said “no, Tess is the pretty one, remember her beautiful home?  I’m tita Rita.”, I replied. 

Celine, your birthday party was so much fun; inli food, unli laughter, unli sharing, unli jokes, unli photos; unli catching up, truly unli everything. 

Many thanks for your party favors, interesting party loot. I love the cheeses, partillas and the sweet rambutan. All are yummy! And thank you for the wonderful lunch. 

May your birthday week of celebrations be happy and joyful. Keep the birthdays coming! 

CELEBRATING ANNIE’S BIRTHDAY WITH A MODERN-DAY INDOOR LUAU

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They say that if you have nothing but a loving sister, then you are richer than you know. My sister is 12 years younger but the years balanced off the difference. Our pledge to each other: 

“No ifs, ands or buts, as sure as it can be, nothing will ever break us apart”.

Won’t that make you feel secure? Or you wish you have a sister? 

We celebrated Annie’s birthday with a Hawaiian themed party. Oh, nothing like the traditional outdoor luau with fire dancers and certainly not the Kuala pig roasted underground. Instead we had the best lechon in town, Elar’s. 

The clan gathered in all kinds of improvised outfits in keeping with the theme. The food served are the traditional party favorites, lots of catching up, plenty of laughter and countless photos. 

Multicolored garlands were being offered at the door for anyone to grab and wear. Everywhere I looked was party ready; flowers and plants were subtly placed and balloons in different colors adorned the handrails of the banister; but the welcome balloons that decked the entrance lured us back outside for more photos. 

I brought a hibiscus imitation similar to mine for Annie but she was already wearing a blue and white plumeria beneath her right ear. Mimicking a Hawaiian tradition I wore the flower behind my left ear to show that I’m taken. Wearing it on the opposite signifies that one is single and maybe looking for love. Is my sister looking for love? Are you Annie? 

The party started to swing when the cousins, nieces, nephews and grandchildren arrived almost simultaneously and the party came to life. 

Annie set the appetizers on the kitchen island leaving a space fot the Aboy’s Lumpia soon to arrive as well as the karekare and chicken teriyaki to be served hot. 

The charcuterie board was picture perfect like in the pages of a magazine. 

Spam skewers, very Hawaiian! 

Here’s another Hawaiian fare, the pineapple towering over slices of fruits. 

I overlook taking a photo of the whole spread after the hot meals were placed. Except for the cake I missed taking a photo of the leche flan and the buko pandan salad. 

The highlight of the party was the best in costume contest. 

Children category winner is Sciezka 

And Xia as runner up

Consolation prize, Miggy

Men’s category winner is Troy, Maggie’s plus one

Women’s winner is Maggie

Runner up is Amy

Soon the cake was brought out for candle

blowing 

Catching up continued over coffee and dessert and more photos were taken. 

Jokes and laughter continued,  then plans for the next reunion began to form and the date was set. 

It was great being with you guys, getting together with you all was so much fun. Until the next party. Love you all! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Tess!

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What can I give you my friend? 

I know a wish and a prayer that you will be showered with all the blessings of good health and pure joy ……

That you continue to hear with your heart like you said your mother always taught you..,,

I believe that you and I were meant to be friends when we became more acquainted walking/jogging during the onset of the pandemic lockdown. 

We found joy picking fallen mangoes even when you had plenty from your tree. We recited English literature quotes we both know by heart. We found common interest in cooking, exercise, diet and best health practices. 

From you I learned to take amazing photos of sunrises and sunsets that gave me more awareness and better appreciation of nature as a whole. 

I introduced you to sun gazing after which you got hooked and did it at sunrise and sunset. To the 7-day cabbage soup diet that you really did not need but did it anyway and you finished with flying colors. You always succeed in any endeavor whenever you set your heart to it. 

You finally made it on the fourth attempt to fly to your family in Rotterdam; at the airport you messaged me:

“Thank you very much for our wonderful mornings, they were the highlights of my day. I didn’t find the time to write you a card but my driver will bring over the twin Beringer, my thank you gift.”  

Wow! I gained a friend, I soon realized that you appreciated my friendship as I did yours. This quote is true: “ to make a difference in someone’s life, you don’t have to be rich or perfect, you just have to care”. 

I never told you that I was sad the day you left, suddenly I felt so alone. So I went to find Juliet, had a chat before I went home. 

I looked forward to the day you will be back so we can walk again. It was a long 18 months until things got better and airports started operating. 

I met some friends when you were away and you embraced them all when you returned and the Sweet Magnolias was formed. 

You are such a lover of life that nothing seems to bother you; even the weather seems to cooperate; more often than not, the rain gives us a breather so we can complete our 10,000 steps. 

A bit of rainfall won’t bother you, “it’s just water; no need for umbrellas”,  you say. And if rain pours you serve breakfast in your home. 

You were sincere in telling me about your exemplary humble beginnings; yet the beach is your backyard. Lucky you!  Like you I was also open about who I am, no pretense, only pure honesty, a great foundation for a lasting friendship; if I may say so. 

Let me conclude with a prayer that The Lord will always keep you safe and protect you with a steady health of mind and body, and may the angels and saints uplift your spirits always. 

Now blow that candle, cut the cake, pop that bubbly and be merry, happy birthday! 

A LITTLE TASTE OF INDIA

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PORK SPARE RIBS, SALTED BLACK BEANS, DIMSUM STYLE

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Didn't I tell you that I’m trying to expand my cooking repertoire to make happy meals for me and Jim?  Today, I cooked pork spare ribs with salted black beens, dimsum style. 

Let your butcher machine-cut 

500 gms of pork ribs, about 1-2 inch cubes, not bigger. 

             Wash pork ribs

In a bowl, put ribs and add

1 tbsp baking soda,  mix well, then add:  

1 cup boiling water. 

Let that stand for 10 minutes. 

Wash the ribs thoroughly 3-4 times then 

Drain and dry with paper towels 

               Make Marinade 

In a boil mix

3 cloves crashed garlic

1 tbsp cooking wine

1 tbsp cooking oil

1 tbsp soy sauce

1 tbsp oyster sauce

1 tbsp sesame oil

1 tsp sugar

1 tsp grated ginger

1/2 tsp ground paper

Mix well, put in pork ribs, Add 

1 1/2 tbsp corn starch and mix to ensure ribs are fully coated.   

At this point there should be no  liquid remaining. 

For best results marinate this overnight, if in a hurry, 30 minutes will do.  For this batch I marinated it for 7 hours. 

                      Steaming 

Set up a steamer big enough to accommodate the pan of ribs.  Otherwise, steam in  batches. 

Put the ribs on a plate that can stand steam, no plastic please. 

Garnish the ribs with 

2 tbsps salted black beans

2 tbsps thinly sliced leeks

1 pc red chili thinly sliced diagonally ( optional)

After an hour I checked  if pork is already tender, but it needed  another half hour more. So I covered again and waited. 

To get the right tenderness it took  1 1/2 hours. Lesser portions of ribs may tenderize faster. 

This ribs will also tenderize on a pressure cooker if you please. 

It was good, about as tasteful like eating in a Chinese restaurant. 

I noticed that 500 gms is too much for me and Jim for one meal, next time I’ll just do half the recipe. 

PORK SPARE RIBS WITH BLACK BEANS : DIMSUM STYLE

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Didn't I tell you that I’m trying to expand my cooking repertoire to make happy meals for me and Jim?  I recall jim always order spare ribs when we dine st Chinese restaurant do i was sure he’d  be like it. Today I cooked pork ribs with salted black beens, dimsum style. 

Let your butcher machine-cut 

500 gms of pork ribs, about 1 1/2-inch cubes, not bigger.

                Wash pork ribs

In a bowl, put ribs and add

1 tbsp baking soda and rubwell with your hands. Add 

1 cup boiling water. 

Let that stand for 10 minutes. 

Wash the ribs thoroughly 3-4 times. 

After10 minutes. 

Drain and dry with paper towels 

                   Make Marinade 

In a bowl mix

3 cloves crashed garlic

1 tbsp cooking wine

1 tbsp cooking oil

1 tbsp soy sauce

1 tbsp oyster sauce

1 tbsp sesame oil

1 tsp sugar

1 tsp grated ginger

1/2 tsp ground paper

Mix well, put in pork ribs, 

Add  1 1/2 tbsps corn starch and ensure ribs are fully coated.   

At this point there should not be any liquid left. 

Marinate overnight for best results; if you run out of time, 30 minutes will do. For this batch I marinated it for 7 hours. 

Steaming 

Set up steamer big enough to accommodate the pan of ribs.  Otherwise, steam in  batches. 

Arrange the ribs on a plate that can stand steam, no plastic please. 

Put on top 

2 tbsps salted black beans

2 tbsps thinly sliced leeks

1 pc red chili thinly sliced diagonally ( optional)

Check after an hour to see if pork is already tender, and it still needs another half an hour  Note that steaming smaller portions of meat may tenderize faster. 

Steam for 1 1/2 hours or until meat is tender. 

Another way to tenderize the pork is to use the pressure cooker.