Gone Crazy Over Fitflops?

I wondered whether I've gone crazy over a fitflop.  I already have one that my younger daughter gave me three years ago.  It's gray with silver sequins all over the thong-shaped strap. I just love it!  

Everyday as I walk at the mall, I pass by this fitflop outlet and I often check out what their new arrivals are.  I find the Cha Cha model attractive but I felt like it is too fancy for me. 

I really had no intention of buying a fitflop because first, mine is still good and the cost is more than what one would usually spend on a pair of "step in, aka slippers".   Christmas came and went and I wasn't so conscious of that store I obliviously pass by everyday in spite of their many customers.

Sometime last week, my husband wanted to look at the outlets in Sta Rosa and asked my daughter and her husband to go with us.  He wanted to shop for another Nike.  I myself had no plans of buying anything, I didn't feel like I need something. 

We went around the shops, no luck, my husband couldn't find what he was looking for.  

"Did you find anything that interest you?, I asked. 

"No", he replied.  "When I see it, then I would know that it's the one I'm looking for". 

Did you ever feel that way when you shop for something?   That always happen to me when I shop for the right blouse, the proper dress, the appropriate footwear or even the best kitchen gadget. 

We went to Purple Oven to buy some pastries, then my granddaughter wanted to check out the other Payless outlet after I pointed to a penny loafers that is something different from her collection of Payless and Cotton On ballet flats.  The first pair she saw had glitters, she didn't like it. 

Passing by some stores, I saw something I like, something I wasn't looking for but it caught my eye and suddenly I got interested.  

It is a black fitflop Ibiza.  I felt like shopaholic Rebecca, who couldn't resist the window display that seem to beckon her every time she passes by the shops.  I just couldn't get it out of my mind. 

When I got home, I thought I'd look for it at Amazon US and ask my son-in-law to get it for me on-line.  The thing is my size was not available.  I looked at the four outlets in town but it is out of stock as well, except for one pair but one size smaller. 

"Thats the model people got crazy about last Christmas", the salesman told me.  My size is so common that they easily run out, I almost can't get anything from any sale or clearance either.  I asked my daughter to check if it is available on-line in Singapore but they also run out. 

What to do? 

 For the first time I felt like I really have to have it.  It is very unlikely of me to  go to such extent for myself.  What's happening to me?  Am I experiencing second childhood?  I wondered about that, LOL!!

Last night, I kept looking for it again on-line at Amazon, but nothing. I thought I even dreamt about it.  

What did I do? 

I settled for my second choice, I got the "Fun, flirty, feminine, super-comfy, beaded flip-flops", (that's the manufacturer's description, not mine), the black fitflop Cha Cha.  I was told that it's their best seller. Even though I thought earlier that it is too fancy for my taste, I settled for it since the design is similar to the Ibiza except for the sequins and the patent siding.

I hope to sleep soundly tonight.  My husband would kid me that I'd put it beside me while I sleep.  It is a family joke when one has a new pair of shoes; it started sometime when my son as an adolescent slept with his new pair of top sider.  

Pope Francis in the Philippines

With all the excitement and celebration going around Manila, I cannot pass up writing a blog on Pope Francis' visit to the Philippines. 

Several days before his arrival, the excitement started building up.  First, the 5-day holiday in Metro-Manila was announced, then came the plans and programs that will take place; the international and domestic flights to be cancelled three hours before the arrival; road closure and re routing of traffic and venue preparation. 

The D-day yesterday on Pope Francis' arrival was a BIG "fiesta" in Manila. Large crowds were gathered at the Villamor airbase, children danced in welcome, as President Aquino met him along with his cabinet. 

Riding on an open, all-white Japanese-made popemobile, Pope Francis was brought to the Apostolic Nunciature where he opted to stay during his visit.  He was standing and smiling as he waved to the crowd (who were there as early as 5 hours earlier) that lined up the streets all the way to his destination. They were waving flags, raising religious images and statues; cheering, some giving letters (handed over to his security group); at the same time raising their phones, tablets, iPads and cameras to take souvenir photos and for posting on social media.

Again, today, as he navigated his way to the venue of activities, the crowds on the streets were over-whelming, his famous smile is pasted on his face at all times; though it was reported that children got his sweetest smiles.  Everywhere he went, the crowds in the streets got bigger and bigger; and that made him very happy. 

This afternoon, as he entered the Mall of Asia arena (MOA), to meet with families; he connected with the crowd, he was so close that they could almost touch him.  A child was carried up and he blessed, kissed and embraced the child. It was reported that he is happiest if he can touch and reach as many people as possible.  At the MOA this afternoon it was arranged that he encounters with three families; those victims of calamity; the sacrificing family of OFWs and the victims of injustice.  

I understand that pope Francis' visit has a dual purpose: as head of state and as head of the Catholic faith. This morning I saw again on TV the warm reception of the crowd on the streets covering his entire route to malacanang palace where he was accorded the ceremony honoring him as head of state.  

I had to leave the house and when I got back my husband who continued to watched tv related the interesting  incident at the start of the pope's homily during the mass at the Manila Cathedral. 

He started with a quote from John, 21: 15-17, in which Jesus asked Peter:

 "do you love Me?" 

And the hundreds of enthusiastic crowd watching on live stream gathered outside the cathedral mistook it as a question and answered: "yes", 

 before he could continue.  So he replied:

"Thank you very much" 

and then he laughed along with the crowd. 

Unlike the earlier visit of Pope John Paul 11 in 1995,  this visit gathered much more enthusiasm today since there are cell phones and other gadgets to spread the word on social media.  I learned that Pope Francis himself has around 17 million followers on Tweeter.  According to the Philippine Star, even the conservative bishops in the Philippines turned computer savvy creating a website for Filipinos to send prayer requests.  It was reported that topmost were requests for help to heal the sick; bear children and find jobs.  When people in the street were asked how and what they feel about this visit, they replied:

"Seeing him gave us hope"

"The hurt and sadness will be lessened if we see him", said a typhoon victim. 

"Over-whelming joy that i don't know whether I will cry or smile, it can't be explained". 

"I did not wash the face of my child last night after pope Francis kissed her", a mother said.  She waited with her child at the gate of the Apostolic Nunciature the night before. 

Pope Francis aim to focus this visit on the poor, the exploited and the victims of injustice. His theme is:

"mercy and compassion"

He also mentioned that he is all for freedom of speech but with limits so as not to hurt people so they maintain their human dignity.

It was also mentioned that the visit was to "give momentum in spreading the catholic faith especially that the Philippines is noted to lead in Asia". 

In an editorial of Teddy Locsin on ANC: The World Tonight", he said in so many words that one lesson the pope learned in life is:

"to give help the moment it is asked, not any moment later", as such help maybe a matter of life and death.  Locsin continued:

"it is therefore not wise in some instances to teach one to fish when he is so hungry that he needs nourishment right away". 

As Pope Francis arrived via the flag carrier of Sri Lanka, the SriLankan Airlines, the country of origin; likewise, the country's flag  carrier, the Philippine Air Lines (PAL) will bring him to Palo, Leyte, the south of the country and back as he visits the victims of typhoon Yolanda  and them back home to Rome on Monday. PAL has no direct commercial flights to Rome.

This historical visit of Pope Francis to the Philippines is a precious gift that gave much hope and inspiration to the Filipino people and shall remain in their hearts as a pleasant memory never to be forgotten. 

It's Not Too Late To Make A New Year's Resolution.

When the clock strikes 12 midnight on December 31, it customary to let champagne pop, kiss and hug the person close to us, close our eyes and make a wish or a resolution.  It's almost the middle of January and if you haven't made up your mind about your  New Year's resolution, please don't despair.  

I read somewhere that 12 midnight on New Year's Eve takes place around the world within a twenty-four-hour period.  It takes place first in Australia, followed by Asia, then Europe and finally the Americas. Therefore, if you believe that making a wish or a resolve on New Year's Eve is more effective, then remember that you have 24 hours to do that next year if you were too pre-occupied that you forgot to make a wish/resolution recently. 

Besides, as Olivia Goldhill wrote:

"Instead of setting a firm resolution on January 1, it’s best to spend the first few weeks of the year thinking over your goal, what you really want to achieve, and how to incorporate it in your life to make it sustainable."

I agree with Olivia Goldhill; since more often than not, many resolutions seem good in the beginning but as the days, weeks or months go, our resolve wains.  It is best therefore to give it a lot of thought.

What are the top most resolutions ever made?  Laurie L. Dove in howstuffworks.com wrote: 

"According to a 2011 Marist University poll, "losing weight" topped the list for one in five resolution-making Americans, closely followed by "exercising more," with "spending less and saving more," "quitting smoking" and "being a better person" tied for third."

In general, it looks like the majority all want to feel good and look good while the rest are simply not very conscious about it.  Why then do we need to make a resolution about health? Why not make it just a plan to follow, as they all say, a heathy diet is a lifestyle.

  

Then again, come to think of it, why do most of us only make resolutions on the onset of the new year?  Couldn't we do that anytime, any day? After all don't we all agree that a new day always bring hope for a fresh new start? 

How Did You Celebrate Christmas

I copied this quote from one of my facebook friends. 

How was your Christmas, or better yet, were your "Holy Days" happy?  Did it go as you expected?  Did you bond with family and friends?  Did you pose for that traditional picture by the Christmas tree?  More importantly, did you create happy memories to last forever?

Families have different Christmas traditions. Some travel abroad taking advantage of the children's vacation, others check in to hotels to be free of cooking and preparing food at home. Some devote a day during the season to share their blessings with the less fortunate.  However most of us stay home, big families take turns in hosting Christmas feast for the clan. 

Way back then, the celebration with my parents and siblings revolved  around church festivities; it starts with the misa de gallo and ends on the feast of the Three Kings.   That's how it was in the early days; the Christmas atmosphere prevailed until early January.  The festive feeling that's in each and everyone lasted throughout the whole season.

 

Our big party is the noche buena,  right after the midnight mass on Christmas Eve.  In our hometown, my parents had lots of friends that they always invite.  Add this to the numerous aunts, granduncles and grandaunts around, so there's always a big crowd celebrating with us at home; and I liked that, "the more, the merrier". 

My own family's tradition today is dinner together at around 8 o'clock on Christmas Eve.  Afterwards, we pose for the traditional Christmas picture and open our gifts.  That's when fun pics are taken, it's when we loosen up a bit and forget whatever life's challenges we have (at least during the season).  There's a lot of laughing and kidding around that one just couldn't avoid being caught into it.  As we open our gifts, we thank each other; some are even trying them on for size so they know if there is a need to exchange.   We usually break up before midnight so our married children can spend noche buena or Christmas Day lunch with their spouses' families. 

This year, my Christmas was wonderful; my two daughters and their families celebrated the happy event with us, the younger one and her husband who live abroad came home for vacation.  We spent Christmas Eve and Christmas Day together just catching up, enjoyed long meals; recalling family stories and sharing future plans.  Though we've been going to the malls and eating out, still being at home; the place where they all grew up and had celebrated many Christmases gave us a memorable venue for great bonding time.  

My son and his family couldn't make it; but because of FaceTime it felt like they were also with us.   Before our 8-month-old grandson's bedtime, we saw him in his Christmas outfit: a white shirt with a picture of a penguin wearing a Santa cap and snow falling around it; a text is printed across:

"My first Christmas".  

Then, we continued exchanging greetings.  

"It looks like you're having fun, I see everyone smiling and hey, did you all plan to wear blue?  And Dad is wearing a nice polo shirt, is that new, Dad?" My son asked.  I myself put on a dark pink shirt but my older daughter asked me to change it to blue so that I blended in.  

"Don't send our gifts", my son said:  "I'll get them myself when I go there for business in early January, we'll celebrate Christmas again and I will bring your gifts then". That's how it went, everyone greeted him and his wife; everyone was thrilled with the baby, lots of ohhh's and ahhh's  were expressed as we all looked at him when we passed my iPad around. 

One day between Christmas and new year my husband's two married brothers in Vancouver had FaceTime with us as well, including their wives, children and grandchildren. We got to listen to their youngest, my nephew's two-year-old son who was very talkative.  He kept saying: " I love you", as he was prodded. 

Again, we passed the iPad around like they did as well, brother to brother talked, sister-in-law to the other; cousin to cousin, niece/nephew to uncle/auntie and everybody. It was fun, everyone in high spirits, they just had dinner while we were putting away the remains of our brunch.  

What I miss this year was the annual FaceTime with my sister and youngest brother who both live in the US.  Every Christmas, my sister and my younger brother and his family go to my niece's home in Fairfield, California and when they're all there, I get to talk to everyone of them. Nonetheless, it's okay since we chat often. 

On Facebook, I learned a lot of interesting things about my friends' Christmas celebrations. For instance, I learned that one of my BFF, Agnes who now lives in New York cooks delicious ham decorated with pineapple rings and cherries.  She post this ham prepared for the nurses in the hospital where she works. 

I saw a college BFF, Bee, wearing a Santa costume at a party and when I made a comment: "Filipina turned into a Santa", she replied:

"Watch you chimney Ritz, if Santa stays with her diet, then she'll make it there, Ho! Ho! Ho!"

I saw a picture of my childhood friend having their Christmas dinner with the family members in costume.  My comment:

"This reminds me of your family reunions where each and every family presented a production number.  I knew it was a lot of fun for you all and I envied that as a child".  And she replied:

"We still have that reunion, Rita, this is our 70th year". Isn't it great that they kept that tradition alive?  

It is also interesting to see friends' homes well decorated; a friend in Alabama  post pictures of her home, including the nooks and corners tastefully decorated for Christmas. 

A lot of friends post pictures of their feasts while others shared their family pictures.  I noticed that every family has their own delicious Christmas menu.  My favorite is the one prepared by my niece, Angel who lives in Los Angeles.  That porcheta looks so crunchy.

There is no doubt that everyone of my friends had a wonderful Christmas, if I gauge it on what I saw on Facebook.   Tables were overflowing with all kinds of delicious food; the Christmas trees loaded with gifts and they were all smiling, I'm sure there's a lot of kissing and hugging as well.

For my family, our Christmas celebration is not yet over, even though my younger daughter and her husband went back home to the city where they work.  In fact they spent New Year's Eve in our son's home.  Here she is feeding her nephew, our grandson while she's drinking her red.   

For want of a reason to go out, we again had dinner with my older daughter and her family only last night, we enjoyed yet another wonderful evening with yummy Italian and Mediterranean food.  Over coffee and dessert, we just listened to the popular music (which only our granddaughter can sing along), played a group conducting Zumba sessions. 

When we meet our son to hug and greet him "Merry Christmas", over breakfast, that would wind up our celebration on a high note. 

Happy New year everyone!